Adult Site Broker Talk Episode 136 With Dominatrix Mistress Carol

Speaker 1 (0s): This is Bruce Friedman of Adult Site Broker, and welcome to Adult Site Broker Talk, where each week we interview one of the movers and shakers of the adult industry, and we give you a tip on buying and selling websites. This week we'll be speaking with dominatrix and hypnotist Mistress Carol, Adult Site Broker is proud to announce the launch of our new website, adult Site Broker 3.0 at adultsitebroker.com.

The look and feel of the new site is nice and up to date and easier to navigate. The new site also has links to our affiliate program, ASB Cash, and our new blog. Speaking of ASB Cash, we've doubled our affiliate payouts. Now, when you refer sellers or buyers to us at Adult Site Broker, you're gonna receive 20% of our broker commission on any and all sales that result from that referral for life. You can either place a link to us on your site or refer buyers and sellers through an email introduction.

ASB Cash is the first affiliate program for an adult website brokerage. Check out ASB cash.com for more details and to sign up. Now, let's feature our property the week that's for sale at Adult Site Broker. We're proud to offer for sale a streaming network of sites for independent performers. Most of the traffic comes from North America. It's the Shopify of streaming video and offers turnkey streaming sites to content creators. All creators have to do is provide some information about their brand, choose a look and feel, upload their images and videos, and they launch their streaming site on the domain of their choice in just minutes.

The platform provides everything creators need from customer support to payment processing, so creators can focus on managing their content and marketing their site. The platform can also generate revenue from ads on free content, as well as subscriptions to premium content. The platform uses AWS Cloud technology to stream live and on-demand content all around the world. The sale also includes a mainstream platform. The content is sold on a monthly subscription basis.

The code was developed in-house by their team of engineers. This is a great opportunity to enter the exciting world of live streaming video for a modest cost. Platforms like this cost a lot more to build from scratch, only $540,000. Now time for this week's interview. My guest today on Adult Site Broker talk is Mr. Carroll. Mr. Carroll, thanks for being with us today on Adult Site Broker talk.

Speaker 2 (2m 50s): Oh, you're very welcome. Thank you for having me.

Speaker 1 (2m 53s): It's a pleasure. Now, Mr. Carroll is a dominatrix, erotic hypnotist and clinical hypnotherapist. I'm gonna try not to screw that up at erotic hypnosis for men.com. She's an expert at controlling your mind and taking you deep into the sensual experience of hypnotic trance and fantasy. Her sessions have been celebrated as some of the best in the industry with her provocative and controlling voice that welcomes one to surrender into hypnotic submission with an intellectual interest in psychology and the mysteries of the subconscious mind.

Mr. Carroll has been practicing hypnosis and creating erotic transitions for over 10 years. As a sensu, she takes pleasure in creating a dream-like environment where one may be immersed in fantasy, lost inside her control and sexually dominated. As she blows your mind, she thrives on pain and pleasure, domination and submission control and surrender, plus passion and desire with a bit of a mischievous streak and a playful manner, Mr. Carol enjoys the dynamics of tease and denial, taking you to the edge of agony and lust, then leaving you aching for more professionally.

Mr. Carroll is also a clinical hypnotherapist and works with the community, supporting individuals with overcoming issues and habits, so they may create their best lives. She's helped many to overcome anxiety, stop smoking, lose weight, and conquer their own personal limitations. Mr. Ll is the creator of erotic hypnosis for men.com, a layer of wicked enchantment and depravity, which features a captivating variety of recorded erotic hypnosis sessions available for online purchase.

Mr. Ll also offers live online sessions for one-on-one trance experiences and distance training on many sexually inspiring topics. You may also find her older discounted sessions at my hypnotic domains, or visit her@loyalfans.com slash Mr. Carroll, where you can enjoy her subscriber only v i p content. And we've got a treat on the podcast today. Mr. Carroll is gonna do a few minutes of trance with us, so it should be interesting.

Speaker 2 (5m 3s): Mr. Carroll.

Speaker 1 (5m 5s): Yes. What's involved? Yeah, my, I'm losing my voice here. What's involved,

Speaker 2 (5m 10s): You may sound,

Speaker 1 (5m 12s): What's involved in erotic hypnosis?

Speaker 2 (5m 15s): Well, before I talk about erotic hypnosis, I'd like to touch on what hypnosis is. Hypnosis is an altered state of mind in which you focus your awareness on the speaker. You experience decreased awareness of the things around you. You become relaxed and it's adjustable. So that is hypnosis in a nutshell. And of course, everybody knows that hypnosis is good for all sorts of things that I You And so is erotic hypnosis that matter of fact,

Speaker 1 (5m 50s): Erotic hypnosis.

Speaker 2 (5m 51s): Yeah, erotic hypnosis is hypnosis with a sexual component. There are many different genres. Of course, I'm a dominatrix, I'm a mistress, so I use that point of view in my recordings. Okay. Although I'm a, a clinical hypnotherapist too, so I, I also make recordings that are helpful to people to relax or shed anxiety just to feel good, just to have a timeout.

Speaker 1 (6m 19s): Great.

Speaker 2 (6m 20s): So ERO hypnosis is hypnosis with a sexual component to it.

Speaker 1 (6m 24s): Okay. So how did you get started with erotic hypnosis?

Speaker 2 (6m 30s): Actually, I got started in B D S M first. I met my partner over 20 years ago and had moved on to a different type of life. Met him and he shared his desires of exploring B D S M, and I thought, yeah, that sounds like a good time. So we experimented. We tried switch, which we would go back and forth, and I said, no, that's not working me, Dom, you sub. So after, oh, 10 years of our experimentation in 2008, I lost my job and my former life, I was a commercial construction project manager.

Speaker 1 (7m 12s): Yeah, we were talking about that course.

Speaker 2 (7m 14s): Yeah. Every, everything can I curse, everything went to shit

Speaker 1 (7m 21s): For everybody.

Speaker 2 (7m 22s): For everybody. So I lost my job and it took two years of unemployment before I found another one. But before I did find that job, my partner turned me onto erotic hypnosis and let me listen to a couple of sessions by some excellent artists. And I went, whoa, that tick a couple of boxes for me. Domination, psychology, control, all sorts of things. Yeah. So I wanted to experiment, and I used a rudimentary microphone and created a session for him, and he went in and listened to it and came back out with red eyes and said, that's as good as anything I've heard on the internet bulb.

So I decided, okay, this is fun. I'm going to start my own business creating erotic hypnosis recordings. And at the same time that I did that, I did that in the November of 2010, and then by the beginning of the next year I was employed. Hmm. So for quite some time, I did both at the same time. Okay. So I'd have to credit my discovery of a rod hypnosis was through my partner.

Speaker 1 (8m 26s): Yeah. That's awesome. That is, that is really, that is really awesome. It,

Speaker 2 (8m 30s): It is awesome. When you find something that really clicks with you in many different ways,

Speaker 1 (8m 35s): How has the onset of the fan sites helped you sell those sessions?

Speaker 2 (8m 45s): Well, you know, I avoided them for quite some time. And I just now recently have joined loyal fans, and I don't know how well they cross over just yet because I'm new to loyal fans.

Speaker 1 (8m 60s): Right.

Speaker 2 (9m 0s): But it's nice to have somewhere else to expose your work Yeah. And to find new people. So it's a good mix, but I still don't know whether or not ultimately one is helping the other.

Speaker 1 (9m 19s): Hmm. Yeah. That makes sense. Well, any place that you can market is, is certainly a good thing. And there are a lot of outlets for that. So I would encourage you to certainly put the content on as many sites as possible. I would think something like clips for sale, which

Speaker 2 (9m 36s): Yeah. They take a little

Speaker 1 (9m 38s): Bit too more tend to be more, more

Speaker 2 (9m 38s): Much cash.

Speaker 1 (9m 40s): What's that?

Speaker 2 (9m 41s): I don't like to give up my money. They take a little bit too much of my cash.

Speaker 1 (9m 44s): Well, that's not, that's not a good thing. Okay. Very good. So, so what do you enjoy about erotic hypnosis?

Speaker 2 (9m 52s): There's many dis different aspects of it. I enjoy, I enjoy the creativity. So I get to think about how I want to hypnotize somebody. What methods, what genre do, is it bdsm? Is it bondage, is it just deep trance? I have many different topics to choose from. So I sit down and write my script, record it, and produce it. And it's, it's very, it's very creative and it feeds my dominant side while subs get to enjoy it too.

Speaker 1 (10m 25s): Can you hypnotize me to rob a bank for you?

Speaker 2 (10m 28s): Do you wanna rob a bank?

Speaker 1 (10m 30s): No,

Speaker 2 (10m 31s): Then no, unfortunately. Well, unfortunately, actually, this isn't something you wanted anybody to have control over. You. Hypnosis cannot make you do something you would not do out of hypnosis. Hmm. So you don't wanna rob a bank. You would not do it for me if I hypnotized you. TV shows a different picture, and that's fun for entertainment. But I would imagine if anybody had that capacity, hypnosis would soon become a thing of the past.

Speaker 1 (11m 3s): Yeah. That would suck

Speaker 2 (11m 4s): The kind of power and control over somebody else's mind. Yeah. What do you think it is? The government or something

Speaker 1 (11m 12s): Spoken by someone who used to work for the state of California? Right?

Speaker 2 (11m 15s): Yeah. Yeah. That was the job I got back in, in 2010. Five years of hell.

Speaker 1 (11m 23s): Yeah. We touched on a few things in our casual conversation and you, you, you happen to mention that. And I went, oh no.

Speaker 2 (11m 32s): Oh, it was horrid. It really was. But you do what you have to do knowing that better things are around the corner.

Speaker 1 (11m 39s): Yeah. And they obviously were,

Speaker 2 (11m 41s): They were, I'm having so much fun now I work for myself. Yeah. And that is a wonderful thing. I can do things in my own timeframe.

Speaker 1 (11m 49s): Yeah. So talk about the, the line of work you had before you became a hypnotist.

Speaker 2 (11m 57s): I was in commercial construction and I was the project manager. So my tools were a computer and a telephone Yeah. And a car. And I did mostly tenant improvements, although I did do a large shopping center down in San Jose and ran the construction projects from estimating to project closeout. Everything about it belong to me, and that was really good at it too. And I enjoyed it. I wouldn't have left it voluntarily to do this.

Yeah. So getting that nasty job with the state pushed me in a great direction. But yeah, I, I was in construction for over 25 years. I didn't do management the whole 25 years. I did management for about 15 years.

Speaker 1 (12m 42s): You couldn't pick a more different line of work than what you're doing now.

Speaker 2 (12m 48s): Well, think about it. I'm still telling men what to do.

Speaker 1 (12m 55s): That's funny.

Speaker 2 (12m 56s): So it kind of fits together a little bit.

Speaker 1 (12m 59s): So what about that, you know, you mentioned telling men what to do. What about that is appealing to you?

Speaker 2 (13m 6s): Oh, I'm a dominatrix. I like to, to be in control of situations. I like to play with the minds of others and open them up and show them what they can experience psychologically through the use of hypnosis and altered states, and take them down into deep trance. And the subconscious mind is such a powerful thing. Right. And they, through images and suggestibility, they experience these things.

I can some, not all, because suggestibility is different in everyone, but there are people that I can take down into trance and suggest to them to have a hands free orgasm. And that's precisely what they do without even touching themselves through the use of words alone. Wow.

Speaker 1 (13m 58s): Seriously.

Speaker 2 (13m 60s): Seriously. That is the

Speaker 1 (14m 1s): Power without, without even touching themselves.

Speaker 2 (14m 4s): That is right. Not everybody can do it.

Speaker 1 (14m 6s): That's crazy. And

Speaker 2 (14m 7s): Those, those who can't are really disappointed, but a lot of people can.

Speaker 1 (14m 12s): Wow.

Speaker 2 (14m 12s): Yeah.

Speaker 1 (14m 13s): You're a lifestyle dominatrix. You, you mentioned that your, your partner got you into it. Yes. But what, what really drew you to the lifestyle?

Speaker 2 (14m 25s): I think it was an opportunity to let a side of my personality that I hadn't played with before out to experiment. And the more I did it, the more I enjoyed it, the better I got back around in that circle. The more I did it, the better I got. The more he enjoyed it, the more I enjoyed it. And it just growed, growed it.

Speaker 1 (14m 47s): Just a new word.

Speaker 2 (14m 49s): Yeah. It just grew into a very pleasurable, intimate, sexual relationship.

Speaker 1 (14m 59s): Hmm.

Speaker 2 (14m 59s): And I can take the things that I've learned as a dominatrix and I can take them and use them in my recordings also.

Speaker 1 (15m 7s): Sure.

Speaker 2 (15m 8s): So I've done recordings using chloroform for force talks, lovers. I've done nipple piercing, I've done the use of smoke. Hmm. But all of those things aren't very mainstream.

Speaker 1 (15m 25s): Yeah.

Speaker 2 (15m 26s): And the situations that work best for most of my clients are just relinquishing control to me for a period of time and being taken away where they have no responsibility and they can enjoy the pleasure of surrendering to a dominant mistress.

Speaker 1 (15m 49s): Is it hard to get them to relinquish control?

Speaker 2 (15m 54s): Well, it depends on the individual. That's why I don't keep anything back. If it's very difficult for you and you don't like giving up control to another, my hypnosis is probably not for you. If you enjoy it and you still don't feel like you're a submissive, well, you're a submissive for the time that I have you in trance. And then you go on your merry way. But if you're really opposed to it, it's probably not going to be something you're comfortable with.

Yeah. And it's very important to establish a sense of trust and rapport. Yeah. For someone to be able to go that deep into trance,

Speaker 1 (16m 36s): I would think.

Speaker 2 (16m 37s): Yeah. I mean, you don't wanna be surrendering your subconscious mind to just anyone that would, could be dangerous.

Speaker 1 (16m 44s): Yeah. Now, you also do live sessions, right?

Speaker 2 (16m 47s): I do. In fact, I just finished one before you and I got together. And unfortunately my internet dropped, but that's okay. He and I got back together and I said, I want you to sleep. And he was back down, down deep into hypnosis with just one simple word.

Speaker 1 (17m 2s): Geez.

Speaker 2 (17m 3s): He's very suggestible. That's,

Speaker 1 (17m 5s): That's powerful.

Speaker 2 (17m 6s): Very suggestible. And that's so much fun. Oh my goodness. It is really fun. I get to have all the fun. Well, they have fun

Speaker 1 (17m 16s): Too, I can tell you enjoy what you do.

Speaker 2 (17m 19s): I really do. I really do.

Speaker 1 (17m 22s): So what do you like, go ahead. Sorry.

Speaker 2 (17m 24s): I was gonna say, but I really like hypnotherapy too, but there's, there's a firewall in between both practices. They don't beat in the middle, it's one or the other.

Speaker 1 (17m 34s): Right. Of course. Of course. Now, what do you like doing with your play partners The most?

Speaker 2 (17m 40s): My personal play partners? Yeah. Oh, I'm a big lover of nipple play, pegging, forced inta. My partner's got a smoke fetish, which feeds both of us. I'm not a, a daily smoker by any means, but playing with him is a lot of fun bondage. He's not into his C B T, so we just don't go there.

Speaker 1 (18m 4s): Sorry, what's C B T?

Speaker 2 (18m 6s): Oh, cotton ball Torture.

Speaker 1 (18m 8s): Ah. I wouldn't be,

Speaker 2 (18m 10s): Yeah. As your boss, Frank,

Speaker 1 (18m 11s): Make me hurt. Just thinking about it.

Speaker 2 (18m 13s): Yeah. But we use a lot of hypnosis in our relationship now. Whether it's going on something physical afterwards, I typically start with a recording. I set him up with a recording and we have a unit that I can talk through while he's listening to recording. So I can enhance it for whatever I have planned for him, which is pretty slick. So I can use recordings I make for others and just enhance 'em and make him listen to them. But he loves hypnosis, so it's easy for both of us.

Speaker 1 (18m 45s): Great. Have you ever had anything unusual happen during A B D S M sessions? She laughs.

Speaker 2 (18m 53s): Oh gosh. Back when I was a baby dom and we were both experimenting, there was a couple of fantasies that he had that I tried to fulfill. I did fulfill them, but on my side, and it was a little rocky. He wanted to have his nipples pierced and I hate needles, but I love him. So, way back when I decided I'm going to do this, got all the supplies ready to go, he was really good about it.

Held still. I did it. I suffered through it with him and ended up piercing both his nipples. A few weeks later, they healed up.

Speaker 1 (19m 35s): Hmm.

Speaker 2 (19m 36s): I had to do it again.

Speaker 1 (19m 37s): Oh shit.

Speaker 2 (19m 38s): Yeah, that's what I thought. But I did it second time was easier than the first. Still difficult, but easier than the first. So when I see some of those photographs posted on the internet of elaborate needle patterns, I have to admire them. And then I have to look away cuz it's just not my thing.

Speaker 1 (19m 57s): Yeah. A lot of people, yeah, a lot of people are squeamish about that kind of thing.

Speaker 2 (20m 2s): Yeah. I mean, it's either you love it or hate it, I guess it's just never been something

Speaker 1 (20m 7s): I would've been a, I would've been a great drug addict, probably. I mean, I'm like, when I go to get a blood test, I'm like looking right at right at at her and looking at my arm. Keep

Speaker 2 (20m 17s): It to me,

Speaker 1 (20m 17s): Babe. Give it, go for it. Go for it. And then I, I'll say, I'll say things like, ow, you know, just to, to mess her up. Anyway.

Speaker 2 (20m 28s): And another incident, we had another, he's a forced into guy. He wanted to try chloroform. And I can't tell you how I got my hands on him, but I did. And the first time I used it on him, he started speaking in tongues and I just about came on undone. I thought, my God, I've killed him. What have I done to him? And it was just a reaction of the first time he'd ever been chloroform. But I didn't know that. I didn't know that. I thought I killed him. I'm never doing this again.

Speaker 1 (20m 60s): Oh God.

Speaker 2 (21m 0s): But that wasn't the case. So yeah, those are the two things that really stand out in my mind as I was working my way through learning bdsm, becoming more confident in my skills and getting good at what I do. I mean, there's some tiers, some anchor, but now the adventures are a lot of fun. And I get to, like I said before, I cross over from the playroom to the studio and take some of my knowledge and create hypnosis for those that are into such things.

I wouldn't recommend anyone who would be offended by the use of chloroform to listen to any of my sessions. I had one of my subs contact me yesterday saying how much he hated it. I thought, well, why did you buy it? It says right there at chloroform. But if it's something that offends your mind, you are not going to be able to stay in T trance. You will come out. Yeah. If you're a chlor, if you're a forced into lover, you probably will enjoy the whole thing. But if you're opposed to that sort of thing, you'll come directly out of trance.

That's how the subconscious mind works. It'll pop you right out. If it's something that your subconscious mind determines is a danger to you or does not fit within your belief system, your mind will pull you right out of trance.

Speaker 1 (22m 21s): That whole chloroform instance must have been really a shock to your system.

Speaker 2 (22m 27s): It was. It was petrifying. He was fine. He didn't care. But it, it really did scare me a lot. So you have to be careful with such things. You know what you're doing.

Speaker 1 (22m 37s): Absolutely. Now, you're also a hypnotherapist. Now what exactly does that entail?

Speaker 2 (22m 44s): In my hypnotherapy practice, I use techniques that help people to get rid of certain things within their minds, such as anxiety. Hypnotherapy is absolutely brilliant for anxiety. I've had a couple of clients who had debilitating anxiety and hypnotherapy got rid of it, and they leave happy normal lives. Nice. The subconscious mind is where all of your beliefs are stored, your habits.

It's a 24 7 recording device, basically. So everything that you've experienced in life is in there. Yeah. Whether or not you can remember it, it still affects your behaviors. So people have hypnotherapy to get rid of those behaviors. Right. And there are certain blocks and obstacles that you've got in there that hypnotherapy lets you remove so that they can change the behaviors, whether it's being anxious or a repeating habit that you wanna get rid of smoking, losing weight, something personal.

Personal issue. So it's a way to get into the subconscious mind without chemicals, so you don't have to go to the doctor and take medication to get rid of your anxiety. So if there're people out there listening to this podcast, you're anxious, you're on the edge, you think you want to go and get some help medically? Yeah. Try hyp, try hypnotherapy first. Yeah. It, you know, I've had with anxiety, I've had a hundred percent track record. Wow. So give it a try before you go and get a pharmaceutical.

Speaker 1 (24m 26s): Yeah. Because doctors are so quick to prescribe things.

Speaker 2 (24m 30s): Oh yeah. That's how that big pharma makes their money. And doctors are part of that

Speaker 1 (24m 34s): Shtick. Yes, yes. Yeah. Yeah. Did you, did you read that book about Purdue Pharma?

Speaker 2 (24m 42s): I did not.

Speaker 1 (24m 43s): Oh God. It's, I forget the name of it, but I, it, it was a, looks like 600 pages, but it's basically how Purdue Pharma got over on the entire world by, you know, the, I mean, there was virtually no accountability. The money they ended up being fined, they could have taken out of their back pocket. So, oh. You know, they were the ones who, the, who sparked the whole opioid crisis.

Speaker 2 (25m 9s): Oh God. That is just horrible. I'm glad I haven't read it. I would find that extremely disturbing.

Speaker 1 (25m 14s): It's, it was disturbing. But it was very interesting. It started with the beginning, the founder, Purdue Pharma, they were also the ones that started advertising meds.

Speaker 2 (25m 28s): Oh

Speaker 1 (25m 29s): Yeah. They were the first, the guy that was the founder of Purdue Pharma was an advertising guy.

Speaker 2 (25m 38s): Oh great.

Speaker 1 (25m 39s): Oh, it's, it's a fascinating read. It is just a fascinating read. I, I, I couldn't believe it. But yeah, I mean that's, that's what doctors wanna do. They wanna prescribe meds.

Speaker 2 (25m 51s): Yes. Everybody makes some money.

Speaker 1 (25m 54s): Absolutely.

Speaker 2 (25m 55s): And, but you know, I've taken medication before. I wear one disrupted my system. So they gave me another for that disruption. And then there's another disruption when I should have never had it in the first place. And I think that happens to a lot of people too.

Speaker 1 (26m 7s): Yeah.

Speaker 2 (26m 8s): Yeah. I'm an advocate for the natural stuff.

Speaker 1 (26m 12s): So with hypnosis, let's say I wanna lose weight, which I do wanna lose weight. How does hypnosis help me lose weight?

Speaker 2 (26m 21s): Well, just like erotic hypnosis, the, they're different because in neurotic hypnosis, you can use a lot of language that you can't in hypnotherapy. But I put you in basically a transfer. You become deeply relaxed and you slip from your conscious mind into your subconscious mind. Okay. So the patterns of why you overeat or what you do to yourself are stored there. So I am your guy. Right. I just show you how to find them.

You find them, you remove them. Okay. Which allows you to make the changes that you want to make. Hmm. So you, you could have had something when you were three years old that your parents said to you that created an issue in your subconscious mind that causes you to overeat. You just, you just don't know. Right. Because you pick up everything. So you don't know where it came from. You just know that you have this behavior that you want to change. Right. And consciously you're aware that you wanna change that behavior.

Right. But subconscious mind comes in there, say you're smoking, I love cigarettes. I love it when we can go outside and have quiet time and just have a cigarette. Your conscious mind is saying, I gotta quit. Your subconscious mind is saying, oh, don't we feel good when we smoke

Speaker 1 (27m 37s): It?

Speaker 2 (27m 37s): We have no therapy house.

Speaker 1 (27m 38s): It sounds like, it sounds like animal house with, with sounds like people. Yeah. Well it sounds like animal house where he is got the, where he is, got the devil on one shoulder and the angel on the other shoulder. Remember that. It's,

Speaker 2 (27m 48s): It's kinda like that in a, a little more complex way. But hip therapy helps the subconscious mind and the conscious mind to quit fighting and just get along. So it helps you to get into your own mind. Right. And help you make those changes that you want to make. The techniques that I can use, I can even work with somebody who's had trauma. I don't have to know what that trauma is. Right. Because in traditional therapy, what do you do? You talk about the trauma. So you just make it a fresh wound.

But with hypnotherapy, there are techniques that you can use to get in there and remove the things that just don't work. Replace them with good positive things, get out the boot, out the negative, put in the positive, and get back to living your good life.

Speaker 1 (28m 34s): Does it make them forget the trauma or does it just kind of wipe clean what the trauma did?

Speaker 2 (28m 40s): No, it just helps you to rise above it. Beyond it. No, I don't think hypnotherapy, although I, I can, I, in erotic hypnosis, I can hypnotize somebody so deeply they don't remember what I did or what I said. But with hypnotherapy, you're, you're more aware of what you are doing and where you are. So unfortunately it's, it doesn't wipe clear any past trauma, but it certainly helps you get over it.

Speaker 1 (29m 7s): Yeah. Very interesting. So when you aren't hypnotizing people, what do you like to do?

Speaker 2 (29m 13s): Oh, what do I like to do?

Speaker 1 (29m 15s): No,

Speaker 2 (29m 15s): I asked you. I, I like, I am an avid fisherwoman. I don't know, fisherwoman is, I think it's fisherman is the correct term. I love to deep seafish. I absolutely love to fish. Hmm. I fish in lakes and rivers. But my thing is getting on a boat in a boat on the ocean.

Speaker 1 (29m 34s): Not seas much. Are you?

Speaker 2 (29m 36s): I have never gotten seasick. No. I've been out in Bodega Bay and you know what that's like. And I never got sick. I was one of two people who didn't get sick on a trip once that we went out there. So I'm very fortunate since I love to fish so much. Hmm. And I like to do things outside, hiking and exploring. But right now my hypno, my hypno life is quite busy. So I don't get the opportunity to get out as much as I would like.

Speaker 1 (30m 6s): It sounds like you live in a great part of the world to do all that.

Speaker 2 (30m 10s): I do. I do. I'm really blessed. I'm very fortunate. I live in a wonderful place. Yeah. And I enjoy it very much

Speaker 1 (30m 18s): Except for the fires.

Speaker 2 (30m 20s): Except for the fires I could do without that. Yeah. Take a sip, sip of tea from my lungs.

Speaker 1 (30m 26s): Yeah, exactly. So what are your future goals?

Speaker 2 (30m 31s): Well, I'm really enjoying what I'm doing with the creativity of erotic hypnosis recordings. And I love working with clients online. But at some point in time in my future, I don't know exactly when that timeframe would be. I'd like to create lessons to teach mistresses the art of transient their subjects. I really get turned on working with a prodo.

So she's got a sub. I hypnotize that guy. I put all sorts of stuff into his mind and she gets to play with it. Triggers trigger is just a clue as to a reaction that's been put into your subconscious mind, like a snap of my fingers. So I just really enjoy the aspect of teaching others other doms, how to use hypnosis in their personal sessions with their clients.

So I, at some point in time before I leave the profession, I'm going to, to put something like that together, pass on the knowledge that I've gained through the years.

Speaker 1 (31m 41s): Sounds, sounds like a great idea.

Speaker 2 (31m 43s): It's one of those things that really turns me on. In fact, I've got a client next week, of course I will be there virtually, but it will be a twosome with his real, for lack of a better term, real life dom. He'll be there in person and then I'll be skyping in.

Speaker 1 (32m 2s): Interesting.

Speaker 2 (32m 3s): I'm really looking forward to it too.

Speaker 1 (32m 5s): Yeah. Kind of a threesome

Speaker 2 (32m 7s): It, it is a threesome.

Speaker 1 (32m 11s): So you, so you do work both in-person and online?

Speaker 2 (32m 15s): I do. When I can. I've done in-person work when I've been in England and London, but I live rurally, so there's no place close by that I can do live sessions. I'm not opposed to live sessions at all. They're a great deal of fun. Right. But it's two and a half hours to the bay.

Speaker 1 (32m 34s): Yeah.

Speaker 2 (32m 34s): And that's just too far. It would be far too expensive for anybody to be able to, to do that anyway.

Speaker 1 (32m 40s): Yeah. They'd have to pay for your travel time.

Speaker 2 (32m 42s): Absolutely. Yeah. That would be a full day. And I wouldn't be a very happy camper.

Speaker 1 (32m 47s): I just, yeah. That, that drive doesn't make me, that drive doesn't make me happy either.

Speaker 2 (32m 51s): That drive makes me really crabby. I don't have to do that anymore. I did in my past life. I don't now.

Speaker 1 (32m 57s): Yeah. Makes

Speaker 2 (32m 59s): Sense. But it's easy enough just to connect with people online. Yes. Because after three or four minutes your eyes are gonna be closed and you're gonna be knocked out shortly thereafter. You're gonna be in deep trance. So why pay all of the extra money for me to come to you and hypnotize you when it's a whole lot less expensive and easier for both of us if we just do it online?

Speaker 1 (33m 23s): By the way, is it harder to get somebody under on, you know, virtually as opposed to in person?

Speaker 2 (33m 29s): Not at all. No. It really isn't. I like to see my hypnotherapy clients live because I can perceive things that are going on with them by being in the room with them. Right. And I think I kind of have that sixth sense a little bit with online clients too, but as long as I'm able to watch them and watch how they react, right. I can, you know, just twist and Bob Weave punch, do the things I need to do just watching their face.

So now it's, it's easy enough to do.

Speaker 1 (34m 5s): So where does one find you?

Speaker 2 (34m 7s): Well, as you said in your most eloquent introduction, thank you Di

Speaker 1 (34m 12s): Doll. I tried.

Speaker 2 (34m 14s): That was great. I'm gonna steal it. Thank

Speaker 1 (34m 16s): You.

Speaker 2 (34m 17s): I have several websites. My primary website is erotic hypnosis for men.com. Now that one's new, it's only been active for about a year. Yeah. My other site is my hypnotic domain.com and that's where I put all of my older recordings. They're all $9 and 95 cents. There you go. So if people, anybody wants to go experiment, there's some free sessions there too. So if you've got a curiosity about erotic hypnosis, but you're not ready to spend any money, there's many resources that you can go to.

Most erotic hypnotists have free sessions so that you can try them. Of course, we wanna hook you and get you back to buy more or to have online sessions. Yep. And then I have a fan site, which I just started not too long ago. Fan sites are a lot of work. Hmm. At loyal fans. Right. Dot com slash mistress Carroll. I also have a website, mistress carroll.com. But it is severely neglected. Hmm. And I just, I want to keep it active cuz I'll, that's where I keep all my chloroform recordings, because credit cards don't like forced in talks.

And there's, there's, there's only one place. I mean, you can't even clips for sale Night flirt, none of those places. Right. Will let you do a chloroform recording, which can be a whole lot of fun for those who like them. Yeah. So Mr carol.com is where you find

Speaker 1 (35m 45s): That, that's sort of thing. That's, that's our credit card companies are, they're, yes. Very, very tight with that stuff.

Speaker 2 (35m 50s): And it's very difficult for hypnotists in that world. Luckily, we still have a, a few resources, but, and you've gotta be really careful with what you offer and how you go about your approach.

Speaker 1 (36m 4s): Right.

Speaker 2 (36m 5s): You wanna keep your credit card processing companies happy. So I'm very, very careful with what I do. Yeah. And I stay within their guidelines because I would like to keep this up.

Speaker 1 (36m 17s): What, what advice would you have for someone who wants to get into erotic hypnosis?

Speaker 2 (36m 23s): Well, as a listener, I would say figure out what it is you enjoy. There's lots of resources on the internet. All you have to do is Google it, many, many good content creators and just go have some fun and, and go shopping and look around and try different things out. You want to use reputable content creators because as I said earlier, it is your subconscious mind. Right. And that's not something you wanna share with just anybody.

Speaker 1 (36m 51s): Right.

Speaker 2 (36m 52s): You can't use hypnosis to make you do what you don't wanna do. But if your line is blurred, maybe you'll open your wallet where you didn't want to open your wallet. And as far as those who would like to create hypnosis, yes, there are a lot of good books on Amazon. There's a lot of good books on hypnotherapy, which is also a good resource. Once you learn how to hypnotize, then you can take your skills and modify them and

Speaker 1 (37m 20s): Sure.

Speaker 2 (37m 20s): Learn the sexual side of it too. That's a blast to play with your partner. Learning hypnosis and adding it to the things that you do intimately has a lot of fun.

Speaker 1 (37m 32s): Yeah. Doesn't hypnosis itself take some schooling?

Speaker 2 (37m 37s): It does, but it's not something that you would think would take a lot of schooling because there are a lot of resources on the internet that you can go to and learn the basics. What is induction, what is a deepener, what is the, basically the guts of your session and the awakener. And learn different types of each of those and try them out on people.

Speaker 1 (38m 5s): Right.

Speaker 2 (38m 6s): Gain confidence, learn more, gain more confidence, learn more. And pretty soon you're studying up a shop on the internet.

Speaker 1 (38m 13s): Wow.

Speaker 2 (38m 14s): Like somebody I know.

Speaker 1 (38m 17s): So what do you want others to know about erotic hypnosis?

Speaker 2 (38m 21s): Erotic hypnosis can allow you to experience things that you might not be able to experience live due to finances, inhibitions. Maybe you've got a, a fetish or something, a fantasy role play that you'd really like to try. There's a couple of things that I'm just not into like a bdl. The the adult baby stuff I'm not into are fdo. There are a lot of people out there doing a lot of different things that might connect with you.

You need to establish that rapport and trust that I spoke of earlier so that you do drift off into trance, which is just an altered state. Right. And allow yourself to let go and enjoy the experience. Because once you're in your subconscious mind, it opens things to let you see and feel and experience on a totally unique level. So I can push buttons mentally and create physical sensations in you, but that's just because you're allowing those things to happen.

You want them to happen, therefore it is happening.

Speaker 1 (39m 30s): Okay. So the time has come that we've all been waiting for Mr. Scar. You're gonna do a few minutes of trance with myself and our audience, so take it away.

Speaker 2 (39m 42s): All right. Well, here, you don't have some music. Music, okay, sure. Have you ever been hypnotized before?

Speaker 1 (39m 48s): Yes.

Speaker 2 (39m 49s): Okay. Oh, how did, yeah, just my, was that too loud?

Speaker 1 (39m 56s): No, it's fine.

Speaker 2 (39m 57s): All right. Here's a little music with the little binaural beats in it to help you to drift off into trance. A little metronome.

Speaker 1 (40m 5s): So, no, I can't hear it.

Speaker 2 (40m 7s): You can't hear the music?

Speaker 1 (40m 8s): No.

Speaker 2 (40m 9s): Really? This damn thing. How's that?

Speaker 1 (40m 13s): Yeah, now I hear it.

Speaker 2 (40m 14s): Okay, good. All right. When you're ready to be hypnotized, just allow your eyes to close. And I want you to take a big, deep breath. As you breathe in, I want you to think about breathing in some calm energy. And as you breathe out, releasing any stress or tension that you might be holding within you. As I spoke earlier, hypnosis is increased relaxation, focused attention on the speaker, decreased awareness of everything around you and increased suggestibility.

So with most newcomers, I like to do a progressive relaxation induction. And what that is, is that I'm going to mention various parts of your body, and it's like my voice is relaxing energy that just seeps into those spaces. Creating a deep sense of relaxation as your mind begins to clear an empty, just focusing on the sound of my voice, just enjoying how it feels to become deeply relaxed.

Now I want you to think about the top of your head, just the top, and just let my voice seep on end. Creating a sense of deepening relaxation just on the top, as it begins to spread down your head, down into your temples and your forehead, your nose, your cheek, your chins, your chins, your chin. Allowing your head to become very deeply relaxed, flowing down into the muscles of your neck.

Your neck has to hold up your heavy head all day long. Just let it relax. That's it. Down into your shoulders that have to do all that heavy lifting all the time, just let them become loose, melty as it flows down into the big muscles of your arms, slowing down your arms into your elbows, your forearms, your wrists, your hands that's gently flowing out the tips of your fingers. Now think about those melty shoulders again as that wonderful feeling just flows down into your upper back, your chest back and stomach down into your hips.

Feels so good to relax like this, to just let go. To just become loose and limp all over, down into the big muscles of your legs, knees, shins, and calves, ankles. As you let that wonderful sense of deep relaxation, just flow out the tips of your toes. Now your entire body becoming deeply relaxed as your mind slows down on its way to becoming clear and quiet, focused on my voice, listening to my voice.

Each word I say to you now, creating a deeper sense of relaxation and quietness inside of you. In fact, when I say the word deeper, it's like a, just press a button inside of your mind that sweeps everything away from it. Your body continues to relax deeply, drifting deeper and deeper. It feels so good to let it all go.

It feels so good to become this deeply relaxed as you just listen to the sound of my voice. Nothing else you have to do. Just listen, breathe, and relax. Even deep performing. Now I'm going to count you down, down into TRAs. And it feels so good to be there because you'll be even more deeply relaxed. I'm going to count from five down to zero. And when I say zero, you know you'll be in a wonderful state of hypnosis, a warm, soft, gentle, trans feeling.

So God, bye. Relax more deeply with me now. Let go. Let go of everything and just enjoy becoming so deeply relaxed, listening to my voice. Nothing else you have to do. Four, drifting deeper and deeper feeling good. Because the deeper you fall, the better you feel. And you're feeling really good. Now, let go more drift down with me now.

Three, each number taking you deeper down. And it feels so good to just surrender to it, to just follow me, follow my voice down deeper and deeper down. So relaxed, carefree, and empty, mind quiet. Two, even deeper now. Good. Just like that. Even deeper now, one feel so good to let it all go. And in just a moment, I'm going to say the number zero and snap my fingers and saylee and you'll drift into trance.

And right afterward, I'll wake you again. As I say, zero. And that's it. That's all there is. Drifting down, enjoying how it feels to just float on my voice. Nothing but my voice. Feels good to be quiet, empty. Nothing to do, nothing to think about. And in just a moment, I'm going to bring you out of trans. I'm going to count to three from one to three. And when I say three, you'll come back out feeling refreshed, comfortable and calm.

Relaxed, curious about hypnosis, wanting to learn more. Ready, 1, 2, 3, all the way out now. Waking, waking, getting your mind back, feeling deeply relaxed, comfortable and calm, feeling God. Hi Bruce.

Speaker 1 (46m 16s): Hello.

Speaker 2 (46m 18s): So that's that. You had to do it quickly, but that's a little, yeah. A little introduction into That's

Speaker 1 (46m 24s): Cool.

Speaker 2 (46m 25s): Hypnosis itself. Yeah. And of course, depending whether you're going to the right side, left side, erotic, hypnosis, there's many different techniques that you can use in different situations. And sometimes, like today, when I was working with a client, I combined them, but I've worked with him before that way. But I don't typically do that with, with people. Like I said, I, I keep a, a wall between the two.

Speaker 1 (46m 51s): Yeah, yeah, man, I'm, man, I'm relaxed.

Speaker 2 (46m 56s): Are you good?

Speaker 1 (46m 58s): My like I, my head just kind of kept dropping and everything, so yeah.

Speaker 2 (47m 2s): Yes. That's why I always recommend either lying down or if you're in a chair, a chair that's high enough in the back so you can at least lean your head back.

Speaker 1 (47m 10s): Yeah, I probably should have done that. I probably should have done

Speaker 2 (47m 12s): That. Yeah. It's deep transl. It could give you an neck a next time. My client today, he uses an airplane pillow, which is a great idea to keep your husband flopping around. Exactly. Because you don't want that to bring you out.

Speaker 1 (47m 24s): No, exactly. Exactly. That was awesome.

Speaker 2 (47m 27s): Oh, I'm glad you

Speaker 1 (47m 28s): Enjoyed it. Yeah. Mr. Scar, I'd like to thank you for being our guest today on Adult Site Broker talk, and I hope we'll have a chance to do this again soon. Oh,

Speaker 0 (47m 37s): I

Speaker 1 (47m 37s): Hope so. My broker tip today is part five of what to do to make your site more valuable for when you decide to sell it later. Last week we talked about new ways to monetize your site. Next, eliminate unneeded expenses constantly make sure you're not spending money. You don't need to make sure there isn't duplication in your staffing from time to time. Check services you pay for, like hosting and see if there are better and less expensive options. Take it from me. I've done this and saved a bunch, plus got higher quality hosting in the process.

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And that's it for this week's Adult Site Broker talk. I'd once again like to thank my guest, Mistress Carol. Talk to you again next week on Adult Site Broker Talk. I'm Bruce Friedman.